Youth
For Children and Teens
This is for you. Simple. Safe.
Discomfort
If someone makes you feel scared, confused, or bad about yourself over and over, that’s not okay, even if they’re an adult.
Nervouness
You feel nervous when they’re around, You don't want to be in the room with them. You don't feel safe.
Punishment
You get in trouble no matter what you do. You get punished, physically, occupationally, emotionally, psychologically.
Nasty Words
•They say mean things and then pretend it didn’t happen. They degarde or insult, mock or scold you.
Blame
They tell you it’s your fault when they’re angry. You are wrong or bad because you make them angry. Obviously it is NOT YOUR FAULT.
Unsafe Feeling
You don’t feel safe telling the truth. You don't feel safe to express yourself, you feel you are walking on eggshells.
None of this is because of you.
You did nothing wrong!
You are not “dramatic.”
You are not “weak.”
You are not “bad.”
If someone hurts you with words, threats, control, or fear, that is abuse.
You can tell your story!
You can say what happened in your own words. You don’t have to explain it perfectly. You don’t have to protect the person who is hurting you.
You pay 10% of the work we will do to help you, R 200, and we pay R1800-
It means you’re choosing freedom and fearlessness, It means you’re choosing truth instead of their lies. It means you’re not carrying this challenge alone anymore.
HOW DO WE HELP YOU? Perfect. Below are all three additions, written to plug straight into your site or intake flow. They are clear, protective, and legally grounded, without killing your voice.
End your abuse
If you checked one or more above, this matters. If you checked several, this is not a misunderstanding: it’s a pattern. and patterns need to be interrupted.
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Frequently Asked Questions
When you send an Abuse Alert, your information is treated with strict confidentiality. Your identity is protected, your story is handled with care, and your safety comes first.
You are not required to confront anyone, explain yourself, or “prove” your experience to be heard.
Sharing your story does not automatically trigger action, it gives you control over what happens next. Silence has been costing you. Speaking up here does not.